hindsight 20/20 I probably should have just used truenas and waited until hexos was at or near 1.0. I installed plex and immich from hexos and ever since I have only used the command deck for remote reboots. cool concept and im confident it will be awesome one day this update issue has been a thing for a while now and isn't a good sign for updates in the beta going forward. hearing the horror stories of manually updating truenas while using hexos id rather not manually update and hope the team has a solution soon.